The photographers were almost as amusing as their subject!
Brittany planned a yummy and fun Brunch with family and friends. It was fun to see Quinn's family again and enjoy a delicious breakfast together.
Here is a peek into our lives of living, laughing, and loving! We are Allan and Diane Asplund, the proud parents of 4 great children, and 13 wonderful grandkids! We recently returned from serving a mission in Bangalore, India where we experienced life changing blessings. Come share our lives as we embark on still new adventures!

Vallar grew up in a poor Hindu home and was introduced by a friend to the church 6 years ago . She recognized the truth quickly but had to wait 3 long years to "take baptism" because of her family opposition. Soon after she joined she started teaching with the sister missionaries and knew that is what she wanted in her life. Three years of working and saving, improving her English skills, studying the scriptures and acting in FAITH have brought her the desired blessing of a call to serve. Our lives have been so enriched as we have supported, taught and helped Vallar on this journey. She is truly one of the choice blessings of our missionary service in India.
Her family have come to accept her desire to be a missionary and because of her great committment and example her sister and her husband are taking the discussions and have a baptism date set this month.
The home of one of the 3 brothers (Indian) who own this community. Most of the people who have homes here however are expats who have businesses in India.
Well after we removed our "glass slippers" and started back home we were soon in our regular habitat. Do you wonder at the disparity in this amazing country.
Try to appreciate this display at the wedding. Each section of this is done with flower petals of different colors. Amazing!!
And then there was lunch--always a BIG part of any event. Check out the huge plates of food; and I might add SPICY!!!
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Had to include this picture. Nothing to do with this event but rather left over from Pioneer Day celebration. Can you believe this wagon---all out of styrofoam painted brown.
And just when you think you've "SEEN IT ALL"......... sights along the way to church.
INDIA--there can't be anywhere in the world with such diversity.
We began with lunch (which is always catered here very cheaply) that was the traditional food everyone loves (except me). Check out the huge plates of food and the proficient manner of eating--gives a new meaning to "finger food".
This week her dream became a reality as she received her call to serve in the Utah Salt Lake City Temple Square Mission. When the mission office called to inform us that her call had come in we promptly went to fetch it and called Vallar to come to our apartment after work. When she arrived and we handed her the envelope she was literally overcome with excitement and joy.
Front L to R - Elder and Sis. Hallstrom, Elder and Sis. Clayton, Pres. and Sister Nichols. Back L to R the Lintons (office couple) ,the Eichelbergers (ERS) ,yours truly, the Fairbanks (LDSC).
All our 17 Seminary and 11 Institute classes began this month. It was a bit rocky getting everyone up and running but hopefully things are in place. We have some outstanding teachers and the students everywhere seem very excited about studying the Book of Mormon together. Our Institute class is so wonderful and growing weekly. We love preparing these lessons and are learning so much from our study and sharing in class. We have new converts, lots of YSA's, several returned missionaries and several young marrieds. So the diversity of the students and their experience and background makes for great discussions.
We are also teaching Missionary Prep, Temple Prep and Marriage and Family Relations. Sometimes we can't remember which lesson we are preparing for what class! We have such great members in our little Branch and it will be so hard to leave some of these dear friends.
Side note: as I am writing this blog, I hear the "calls" of yet another street vendor strolling down our tree lined street. Every morning and often throughout the day we hear their calls and run to the window to see what is for sale: flowers, fruit, hand made brooms, spices, rugs, newspapers, plants, and much more that we can't identify. Each vendor shouts his wares in a tongue that of course we don't understand and has his own "unique" pitch! I badly want their pictures but not much luck from our 3rd story window.
Well another Indian wedding this month--this one was the ultimate. She is a convert of 1 year from a Hindu family and he is a returned missionary. By law here they must marry civilly before going to Hong Kong to the temple. They are a darling couple and it was an extravagent wedding--ceremony in the chapel by the District President and then to a reception hall for a reception. Check out the brides "wardrobe". Always a white dress for the church and a red saree for the reception and dripping with jewels! (enlarge and check out the jewels and her painted hands in the dancing picture).
They also have a huge selection of silk on bolts that you can purchase which is why we were there. We are going to have suits made with this gorgeous fabric. It was a fun cultural experience--not quite like stopping in at the local BEVERLY'S!!
One of the best parts of this mission experience is getting to know the terrific Elders that come and go through Bangalore. The Elders who serve in our Branch are the Office Elders so we see them almost daily and try to have them to dinner weekly. This week there were 3, as transfers were the following day. So I cooked up a big pot of spaghetti, salad, homemade Fr. bread and Rice Krispie Treats. This may sound pretty "ho-hum" but to the American Elders who haven't seen western food for sooooo long, it is pretty exciting!! And of course Elder Kumar, the Indian, couldn't figure out what we were even eating. Well, as we sat down I said, "Elder Kumar we have a custom in America that whenever we eat spaghetti we always drink wine with it." (As I sat a big pitcher of grapejuice on the table). The 2 Amer. Elders readily agreed and said it was fermented but that it was O.K. I wish I had a picture of poor Elder Kumar's face!! Oh we love these fine young men and firmly believe that only the best are serving in this challenging mission.
This weekend we were blessed to have TWO PRESIDENTS OF THE SEVENTY at our District Conference; Elder Clayton and Elder Hallstrom. Elder Clayton and his wife were on an Asia assignment and we were their last stop. Elder and Sister Hallstrom were here for their LAST visit as Asia Area President before leaving for Utah. Saturday afternoon Sisters Clayton and Hallstrom and Sister Nichols conducted leadership training for Primary, Y.W. and R.S. It was a very informative, uplifting and fun meeting. The Indian sisters are so smart and receptive to their training and anxious to apply their new knowledge.
The conference was electronically broadcast to 6 other cities in the District and during the Sat. eve session members could "text message" questions for the brethern to answer during part of the meeting. Pretty incredible! Besides giving very uplifting counsel, Elder Clayton and Hallstrom praised and encouraged the members for being such valiant pioneers . They were encouraged to cling to cultural practices that are complimentary with the gospel culture and to have the courage to set aside those that are not. Great promises and prophet blessings were left with these dear saints that buoyed their spirits and gave them determination to move the gospel forward knowing that "every nation, kindred, tongue and people" will hear the word of the Lord. We feel so grateful to be able to witness the miracle of the gospel changing lives, culture and someday an entire nation here in India. It also gives us motivation to work harder, serve better and love more. Can you see and feel the excitement for the gospel in their lovely faces??
It was great to spend the day with 12 Super-Fine young Elders and E & S Eichelberger. It was the first time there for all the Elders and they were like a bunch of excited school boys. Of course they wanted to stop at the Silkworm Market on the way that we have visited before which is always an amazing sight.
As we were driving for 3 hours home from this fun adventure, I was taking in all the beauty and culture and people along the way and thinking............when we get home how boring are the countyside drives going to be through Utah, Nevada, California after experiencing all of this.
Looking into the eyes and weather beaten faces of these humble people who must work from dawn to dusk to provide a very simple life truly brings our lives of ease into perspective. As we wave and smile to one another along the way, there is absolutely no doubt in my mind that Heavenly Father knows and has EQUAL love for ALL his children.
This beautiful lady is Kannaghi, our cleaning lady who comes twice a week for $5 a day. (Eat your hearts out!! ) We love her and her family. They try so hard to be faithful members amidst some challenging circumstances.
Today we had our S&I Graduation Exercises in Bangalore. We were very happy with how things turned out and so proud of all these beautiful young people. We had 26 Seminary and 35 Institute completions, with 3 Sem. grads and 8 Inst. grads. It was a wonderful program and we had almost 100% of the students in attendance to receive their certificates. We all enjoyed yummy cake and fellowship after the program. A fun group of Institute students and a cute bunch of Seminary boys.
This is one of our most successful Seminary classes, all because of the concern and dedication of their great teacher (the beautiful girl standing next to me). And could you find a more beautiful group of Institute girls ANYWHERE in the world?!?
Days like today, seeing the excitement and pride of accomplishment on the faces of these beautiful Indian youth, makes our mission here so fulfilling. We truly are ALL brothers and sisters in the Lord's kingdom.
Vallar joined the church 3 years ago after being taught by the sister missionaries. At that time she knew she wanted/needed to serve. She comes from the most humble circumstances and went to work directly after high school. She has been saving money and supporting her family (common occurance here). Last year she began serious preparation and worked with the previous missionary couple to improve her English skills. We continued when we arrived and meet with her twice weekly to study Preach My Gospel and missionary prep. lessons. We are now helping with the application and she has set August to depart. A recent decision was made that sisters from India will now be sent abroad to serve so that came as a big surprise and adjustment for her.
The missionaries here are expected to buy their clothes and missionary supplies and contribute a set amount to the local mission fund. Then their mission is paid for by the church which is the only way missionaries from India could ever afford to go. Vallar works 10 hrs., 6 days a week to save a little bit of money. She is so happy to meet each week to study the scriptures and practice teaching. She literally "sparkles" when she learns new things and is able to explain and teach. We love Vallar and have learned so much from her about humility, sacrifice and devotion to the Lord. How are lives are blessed by our association with this sweet young sister.
Can you spot Elder A. in the Banyan tree?
Their "White House"
We traveled a couple of hours out of the city to an Elepant Orphanage where we were "up close and personal" with the elephants. We saw the babies and followed the herd of about 55 to the river for their morning bath. Truly amazing!!
Now of course we couldn't leave without RIDING THE ELEPHANTS!! It gave new meaning to "hang on for dear life"!!
Well we did really settle down to two great days of conference with Pres. and Sister Nichols. We spent one day discussing the mission goals, our various responsibiliies and got some good counsel and encouragement. The second day each couple shared meaningful experiences. So it was very uplifting and motivating. And last but NOT least our conference LITERALLY "ended with a bang!!" There is a civil war going on in Sri Lanka and about 9:30 the last night we had an air attack within 500 meters of the hotel. Right outside our 11th floor window tracer bullets, machine guns, and anti aircraft guns were firing amidst all the searchlights. We were forced to shut off all lights and everyone went underground to the ballroom for an hour until they shot down the plane. It was a bit scary but made for a "dymamite" story to tell. So once again, NEVER A DULL MOMENT ON THIS MISSION.
One of our absolute favorite friends is Vallar. She is preparing to serve a mission, only member from a Hindu family, is working hard to learn better English and to become more "bold". (CTR ring Britt). We are teaching her the missionary prep lessons and she was our "Christmas family". We are praying that she can be ready for her mission in the coming months.
We travelled to Coimbatore last weekend to do S & I teacher In-service with 3 Branches in that area. They are such enthused, dedicated and fun teachers. It makes our assignment so enjoyable. They we attended their Institute class and went to their meetings on Sunday. Aren't they beautiful people, young and old???
Relief Society Presidency, 3 generations, Sister missionaries ( + Elder A.)
Whenever we get in the doldrums, a quick review on our blog of these marvelous people and our associations with them gets things quickly in proper perspective!
Can you begin to understand how much fun we have working along side these beautiful young adults and how our lives are so richly blessed?
Next stop--Christmas breakfast at the mission home with Pres. and Sister Nichols, the other couples and 8 Elders(1 day new) and 8 veteran Elders. The enthusiasm we draw from this group is so invigorating.
And last but NOT LEAST, our Christmas dinner with dear friends and Elders. The true spirit of love for the Savior and this season of honoring his birth and life was in abundance.
These pictures are of the living room with some quite nice furniture and tile floors. Every room has ceiling fans and the bedroom has an air conditioner.
The wine pitcher (minus the wine) is an early Christmas present we found at a antique shop here.
Next is our bedroom with the "Princess and the Pea" bed. It is literally 4 feet tall and requires a little spring to get upon. But it is very comfy and much appreciated here. Allan is busy at the computer in our office/guest bedroom. Again very functional and well used.
Next stop is the dining room and snack bar where we gaze at our family placemats at each meal. And granny is busy in the kitchen which we love for its openness and light.
This is our "Stairway to Heaven" so when we are translated we can just walk on up. Actually we live on the 3rd level of a home and the stairs lead to the rooftop which is used here for a "deck" and has clothes lines, etc. All the houses have them. Needless to say we don't spend our leisure hours up top!!
So there it is for our curious family members. We love our little apartment where we feel a peaceful spirit and find a welcome reprieve from the busy and noisy life of the city . The Christmas spirit abounds here as we plan for our YSA Christmas party, Relief Society Enrichment party, Institute party and Christmas dinner with the Elders and a Branch family. The Christmas cookies are baking and we'd like to think the turkey is roasting, but that is doubtful here. But we know this will be a Christmas we will ALWAYS REMEMBER.
Elder Hunsaker (tall one) was our zone leader and one of our sons for Monday night dinner. Elder Reese was adopted from India as an infant and grew up in Logan. His call to serve here was no surprise to him or his family. It is so great to watch the interaction between the American and Indian companions and the respect they have for each other. Each has much to offer in experience and understanding of the "church culture" as well as the culture here.
We love the many wonderful experiences and opportunities to serve here. How dull our lives must have been before "this". The night we returned we were called to speak at a YSA activity the next day and then taught Institute an hour later. Then we had a luncheon meeting today at our apt. with our 10 District YSA reps. Good thing for GERITOL.
The hotel is huge with one entire wing on 3 levels with shops full of intriguing Indian treasures just begging foreigners and locals alike to enter. I have my eye on several lovely items to sometime use my bartering skills to acquire. There is incredible decor throughout the hotel, lobbies and restaurants.